The UM’s are different everywhere you go! I went to a conservative UM church from 1993 to 2002. The church was conservative, but that was quite maverick for the conference which was quite liberal. The conference wanted to break it up and they did so by sending our pastor away and replacing him (the UM church very frequently changes their pastors by re appointment) with a pastor who gave a young man in the congregation an American Indian prayer book for his birthday. We grilled this pastor when he was up for appointment and he claimed to believe in the various things we asked him about, but after he was appointed, he showed his true colors. He was more of an “all roads lead to God” kind of guy and the church fell apart, just as they wished.
The years I was there, it was a great church, though I wasn’t into UR at the time. They started a modern church service and my brother, a non methodist, became the pastor of that service. It was very maverick for them. I think you might find a UM church that could fit in with your beliefs, but it would more likely be a matter of luck since every congregation can be different.