i don’t have that background, but i noticed paganism in church as well…mainly in the sense of attempting to appease God or manipulate Him into giving you good oracles (prophecies), luck, or blessings.
to me that’s no different to trying to appease the god of rain so that your crops grow, or the goddess of spring so that winter will end, etc etc.
i’m putting it badly, but it seemed like God was being treated like a pagan deity: like an arbitrary, random and petty force of nature.
God is, of course, greater than this…and while i can understand that people need to grow in their understanding of God, and sometimes this can be a stepping stone on the way, it still seems to miss the point of God, and the reason why He is so much better than any pagan god out there!
saying that, there are aspects of paganism that i admire…things which i feel the totalitarian church persecuted out of the common people, but weren’t actually bad when viewed from a Christian point of view. but that’s for another day!
as for refuting Universalism…it’d be interesting to see some less unconvincing arguments. but Robin Parry did include a large number in TEU.
personally, i’ve heard nothing so far that has made me actively doubt UR for very long (since i embraced it only a couple months ago!!!) and indeed, one of the things that convinced me was not only that the counter-arguments were really flawed, but also that they reeked of falseness. they didn’t sound TRUE to me, and universalism, though i’m still sometimes doubtful, really does connect the dots better. there’s loads more to learn, but at least what i’ve learned so far MAKES SENSE in this new light.
but if you can find some real counterarguments for us to consider, that’d be great…it’s good to wrestle with these things.