if you can’t cope with life, then that means things have gotten really bad for you. if God, the Author of our salvation and the very true Being of Love, can not show the compassion we would show in those circumstances, then we’ve signed up to the wrong faith…
contrary to that, God IS love, and God will not be horrible to someone who couldn’t handle something. He will gather them into His arms and welcome them into His kingdom.
i don’t know about honour suicides, like Kamakazi pilots or spies. suicide bombers…well they’re brainwashed.
but i could imagine God being fair. chances are i will die with some sin unconfessed and possibly unrecognised, and i fully expect God to be as good as His word and save me.